There’s no “right” way to do polyamory, but there are many, MANY “wrong” ways! Some of the points below are more generalized “dating red flags” that apply just as much to non-monogamy as they do to monogamy!
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Think of non-monogamy as an umbrella, and underneath the umbrella are the many "genres" of non-monogamy. These genres encompass both non-monogamous identities and non-monogamous lifestyles.
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If living in an open relationship where there are two people and they're okay to date other people outside of their main pair, do they eventually end up having less, and less, and LESS sex with each other?
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My partner has mentioned feeling ready for this move for a long while & is frustrated with my moving slow to figure out how to make it work for me as well. Any advice for how to move forward together?
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I’m in a hetero relationship with a woman but I’m also attracted to her best friend. We are all old friends. How do I persuade them both to have a threesome with me?
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I sometimes feel excluded and/or awkward having to be completely not-intimate with the husband. I don't know how to move forward and get to a place where I am not jealous or, frankly, how I can interact with his husband without it being forced/awkward. Help!
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Guys, I am SO EXCITED! This is my first LIVE event, and I'm bringing two other local experts on stage alongside myself to answer YOUR NON-MONOGAMY QUESTIONS in real time!
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I fell in love with someone whose partner doesn't seem cut out for polyamory. We're in love but this guy is his life partner and neither of us wants to upset him. How can I get along with my metamour?
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We’re living in a gig economy culture of radical self-reliance, and this can have devastating consequences for both our physical and mental health. Plus, in my experience, people in open relationships are more just more generally prone to “burning the candle at both ends” than monogamous folks are. We just have so many options!
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Ned proceeded to methodically unpack the cheap Styrofoam cooler he’d brought with him. Out came half a dozen small, identical Tupperware containers, each housing a different species of insect. First came the crickets, then the mealworms. The centipedes followed, as did the giant millipedes and hissing cockroaches. Finally, a pair of wolf spiders emerged to complete the collection...
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